You can either pick up the pieces or fall into pieces. If you adopt a victim mentality, you are actually giving the person who hurt you a second victory.
This is an inspiration to anyone who still lingers on stuff that happened to them in the past. Stop giving such people so much power over you! Talking from experience, dwelling on the hurt only makes you hurt more yet the one responsible is not even aware.
Life is too short to dwell on the negative!!